Obsession
What happens in a courtship round: do servants refresh, do monuments or the Servants' Hall pay, can I pass or take a turn?
The rulebook's round-track entry lists these exclusions and the designer repeated them in several replies.
Nothing but the courtship. No activity is hosted, service is neither rotated nor refreshed, monuments give no reputation, the Servants' Hall cannot be used, and no one takes a normal turn. Courtship rounds are numbered on the track like other rounds, which confuses people.